ick, ex.

[hisamantha]

I already posted this somewhere else asking for help but,
idkk. lol. kay so here I go:

I have this ex... let's call him Bob xD. He asked me out last
year, broke up with me because his friend-ish person like
despised the fact that we were going out, and Bob didn't
think about it that much.. so he did it cause his friend-ish
person (Let's call him... TIM) was pressuring him to. Ick.
So then he regretted it... asked me out a while after. I
said yes, of course. Tim is, like, my bestestest guy friend
and I guess he liked me then (but I didn't know) and he
hated the fact that I was going out with Bob, so he told
me Bob had been talking smack about me... and it kinda
seemed believable at the time. So I broke up with Bob.
Now I regret it x 384547873475893475893457 and even
more so after we had this serious convo the other day
and he said he WOULD go out with me again. What would
you do ? I mean, he's seriously the sweetest guy
ever and I think it'd be worth it to go out with him again,
but I want some other people's opinions. Agh, this is long.
Bye xD.


----btw, bob never said anything about me. Tim made it up----

[joannielicious]

I noticed that the only thing that created more problems in your
relationship with bob was tim! Tim first pressured Bob to break
up with you then he starts making rumors that Bob was talking
smack about you. So Tim basically started everything! It`s not
Bob's fault. It`s Tim`s! So I would say get back with Bob again
but if Tim has to break your relationship with him again, your
friend relationship with Tim should ennd! =] Hope that helps!
Ever need anymore advice just message mee!

[hisamantha]

Thanks so much ! That's what I was thinking. Luckily,
Tim is at the new school that just opened up and I
haven't seen him since last year (: But now him and
Bob are friends and are neighbors. Idk how Bob is
still in my school, but whatever. lol. Thanks again!

[ashleyxo]

bob seems like a good guy,
obviously if you`ve gone out with him 2wice
and are considering it again there must be something
about him that you really like.
i`d give him another chance,
especially because neither time that your
relationship failed was it because of you or bob.
it was because of tim.
soooo...i think that says something.
you may want to rethink ur friendship with tim
and then talk to bob.

[hisamantha]

thanks, ashley (: "tim" is pretty much a jerk and i've learned that now xD hah.

[Nicole :]]

i really think that you should disregard what tim says if you go out w/ bob again. anything tim tells you that relates to the relationship you shouldn't believe him. talk to tim. be like i know you like me, and if you really do like me.. you would want me to be happy right? well. i am happy w/ bob. so if you want to see me happy, can you please knock it off?


thats my advice.

[hisamantha]

thanks so much !