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Post by mackenzie is flyy x on Sept 25, 2007 16:47:01 GMT -5
ello there. anyone can post asvice they need answered. anyone can answer the advice as well. need help? ask away!
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Post by ashleyxo on Sept 25, 2007 19:17:18 GMT -5
ok...
lol i need some advice.
one of my really good friends has been going out with this guy since june
shes is absolutely obsessed with him.
the thing is, its obvious that he isnt interested in her.
at least, to me and my other friends its obvious. not to her.
hes just going out with her to have a gf.
idk if i should tell her.
i dont want to be like "your boyfriends a jerk" and make her all upset.
but at the same time i think shes kind of making a fool of herself.
i want to be a good friend. and its TOTALLY up to her who she dates.
but idk what a "good friend" would do...
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Post by xjasminmarie on Sept 25, 2007 20:03:25 GMT -5
whoaaa confusing =\
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Post by glitzyxlust on Sept 26, 2007 21:23:12 GMT -5
if you think she'll be hurt in the end i would go ahead and tell her.
i had a similar problem.
i told my friend, she was really annoyed/rude about it with me.
but basically he dumped her and she got into the whole 'your such a good friend' mode.
that's what i would do :]
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Post by mackenzie is flyy x on Sept 27, 2007 16:34:54 GMT -5
well your situation is deffinitely a hard one. Theres no easy thing to do. But being a good friend would be always being there for her so i suggest you say something along the lines of this..-----> "Well look, your my really good friend and i care about you a lot which is why i dont want you to get hurt. I dont really think "boyfriends name" cares about you that much. It just seems like he's going out with you to be able to say hes got a girlfriend. And im not telling you to break up with him and make you mad because i just dont want to ruin our friendship but please think about it! But i hope you know that whatever your choice is i'll always be there for you."
cheesey i know but i think its good!
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Post by ashleyxo on Sept 27, 2007 17:02:30 GMT -5
thanks guys.
i`ll def. try talking to her about it.
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Post by mackenzie is flyy x on Sept 28, 2007 19:40:25 GMT -5
anytime. other people need to post advice
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